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Any couple who did not fit into these roles were looked upon with discomfort in the lesbian community, and in some cases being isolated out. When two butches got together, it was a lot of uncomfortable silence. It also described an attitude. There was more of an edge. I knew butches who Any butch stud female for 420 and oral certainly players and could take care of themselves and their woman femae a fight with a man but the style and attitude were different.
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I have many friend whom People looking for sex in Sandy Utah and butch and all efmale variations, but in my opinion there is another level of attitude that goes with being a stud.
I know there are plenty of people who hate labels, but for me I enjoyed discovering these labels because it helped me to define myself as femme and what I wanted in a partner. Do you identify as a stud or xnd and if so, why?
What do you see as the main differences?
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If you do, they are either white, or an older lesbian. But even then, a white butch is sometime called a stud as well. I know its confusing, maybe it is the clothes that differentiate studs from butchs or our demeanor.
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I do not enjoy submitting in this way. If you have your heart set on that… I will tolerate it occasionally but not really enjoy it. It feels emotionally uncomfortable for me to be in that role.
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