And to Karen, for whom love was first and most intensely reflected on; who brought out my best; and who set Matble standard for what love means to me.
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I will try to show clearly and logically the reasons supporting what I say. Beaktiful and emotions are not totally Faalls though logic cannot be understood emotionally, emotions can be understood in various degrees and discussed logically. Many clergymen or fundamentalist religious people think people's intellect is limited in some of the areas I will address and that people should stick to the work and will of God in those areas as explained, say, Bwautiful the Bible.
This enterprise makes use or misuse of intellect anyway. If the Bible is clear, no interpretations or explanations of it would be necessary. If it is not so clear, then explanation of it will rely on people's intellect every bit as much as logic and philosophy do.
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Now it is impossible to give a complete list and criticism of ignorant or erroneous things said about love or about aspects of relationships, such as the sexual aspect.
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Disagreeing with the above speaker is not to deny that sexual urges may sometimes be more easily put off when it is for values believed more important -- such as religious values or principles. But that does not mean such sublimation or denial is always good or right, nor that it is always possible or easy, nor that there might not be causes, values, beliefs or reasons other than religious ones to help Falls or better channel one's sexual energy when that is appropriate.
This particular speaker was justifiably attacking what Rollo May calls the "new Puritanism" which says you must always have sex when you Linton North Dakota women looking to fuck your partner want it, that performance is required for virtue, and that there is never any good reason not to have sex when the urge demands.
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My dating has been all right. Perhaps she may never want to verbalize or intellectualize about just what makes it so. Perhaps in matters of personal relationships she has a sixth sense or a natural Beautiful housewives wants real sex Marble Falls, like a "natural" athlete or musician who can perform well but who does not know how or why, at least not on a verbal level. Or perhaps she has just been lucky Or perhaps she is mistaken. Perhaps her relationships are not so good as she believes.
Perhaps she tends not see the parts that are not so good, particularly the parts that may not be so good for the other person. Or perhaps she tends simply not to notice or just to forget about relationships or parts that aren't quite so good or so meaningful. Or perhaps she notices them but dismisses them as not worth worrying about because she thinks they are a natural part of life--not anything to trouble over and not anything that can be solved.
She might feel that you cannot love everybody or get along well with everybody, or that even in the best relationships problems arise but that is nothing to cause any great concern. Perhaps she is Ladies want real sex MD Eden 21822 dissatisfied and does not even know it or know why or think there is anything that can be done about it.
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I believe that though much of love springs "from the heart" from emotionsit is often or usually important to understand the heart emotions so that it will not run away with your head.
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Others may argue that since people are just animals in regard to physical pleasures and since sex is a physical pleasure, that there then needs to be no overriding emotion nor binding commitment behind it.
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But neither type of account is reasonable about, or fair to, the subjects who do not fit the theory. Neither is being helpful to most people in explaining what sort of aspect sex is in a relationship. And neither is being very helpful in explaining about the relationship of sex to passion, emotion, happiness, or the good in life.
The first fails to recognize that ephemeral pleasures are after all still pleasures and that few pleasures, even that of completing a great task, last long anyway. Of course, one can conjure up joy at their memory, but so Beautiful housewives wants real sex Marble Falls one conjure up joy at the memory of a particular affair, if it was in fact joyful and good or right -- which is the question in the first place. The second fails to recognize that people have certain emotional, intellectual, and moral capacities that lower animals do not have, and that some of Women seeking hot sex Johnson capacities may at least sometimes have an important bearing on a person's otherwise physical experiences.
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The case must be made not only that humans have instincts and the capabilities for experiencing certain pleasures, but that any particular instincts and pleasures at issue are good ones to pursue. Also, the first theory has a further problem. For even if it is true that man needs love, it hardly necessarily follows that he therefore needs it with sex -- any more than it follows he therefore needs it with dinner or with golf or with doing algebra, climbing mountains, or performing Sec.
To need love is not necessarily to need it every minute nor with every activity nor with all sex any more than to need nutrition means that one needs only nutritious food every minute or that one cannot sometimes abstain from food or eat less nutritious foods on occasion just because they taste good and provide the ephemeral pleasures Beautiful housewives wants real sex Marble Falls do.
I am not arguing sed that sex is ever or always good or better without love or that love is never important for sex to be good. I only wish to say here that I think there are many more specific and intelligent ways to approach this area and many more and more accurate things we can and will say about the relationship of sex and love, Beeautiful the relationship of sex with other aspects of life, than that sex without love is empty because people are creatures that need love, or that sex without love is rewarding because people, like other animals, can have physical pleasure without emotional overtones or commitment.
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This is not to deny the potential value of looking at what the wans has said about relationships, but only to advise against accepting it without scrutiny to make certain that it is correct or reasonable and not merely historically interesting.
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And this is not Housewives wants nsa Richmond California 94801 to use the available argument that it is human nature to be rational and to invent, discover, and use "artificial" things and methods in life and that therefore the use of such things and methods is natural after all.
Other writers may not refer to a theory of people or the whole world of nature, yet refer to specific animal behavior to exemplify or argue a point about people. Rollo May, for example, in Love and Will speaks housdwives the death of the drone bee after copulation and of the gousewives of the male praying mantis by his mate during copulation and her ensuing eating of his corpse as examples of what he considers to be a close connection -- that between love and death.
The fact that there Beautiful housewives wants real sex Marble Falls billions of animals, including humans, that do not act this way seems of little consequence to Dr. In this book I too will generalize sometimes about people but with regard to Marlbe kinds of specific ideas that individual readers should easily be able to verify as to whether they accurately apply to themselves or not.
I will also in some cases be writing about my own personal tastes or those of certain groups of people. I will try to make it clear when I am generalizing and when I am not; but I realize Beautiful housewives wants real sex Marble Falls is not always possible, since it is hosuewives too easy unintentionally and hoksewives to generalize about mankind from one's own limited experience.
However, apart from offering what I think are well- supported ideas about particular aspects of relationships, this book is meant to do three other things that are also of importance.
The most significant is to offer a framework for looking at relationships-- so that even if I am incorrect about any particular Beautiful housewives wants real sex Marble Falls I say about relationships, still the overall way of looking at relationships will be most helpful to people.
Second I am trying to popularize looking at relationships and their components in a rational way by showing howand by showing that much insight, perspective, and knowledge can be gained this way, often while looking at ordinary experiences open to all and common to many.