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My wife and I are both 49 and have been together for 23 years. Our marriage is wonderful in every way — except that for most of the last 19 years, she has not wie interested in sex. She seems to tolerate it, but is passive and never initiates it.
I cannot tell you how dispiriting it is to have a long-term sexual partner with very little willingness and enthusiasm for the deed! As I'm at my wits' end, we have discussed this for hours over the last few weeks, she acknowledges her lack of interest and understands my frustration. In fact, she's given me the green light to get this all out of my system by having casual sex with others.
So what now — Internet dating? Am I just playing with fire? I'm stumped — and saddened by your question. As a single girl, your long, happy marriage is something I envy.
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My other caveat is that I don't believe your wife wige giving you this "green light. She may have said it — but her language choices, to "get it out of your system" leaves me to believe otherwise. I have told many Seeking a wife or gf to fuck man "sure, that's fine, if that will make you happy," and not meant a word. Sure, you go on your cottage trip with the boys — I'll go solo to my family wedding, that's totally fiiiiiine. Completely convinced he'll figure it out, and shocked and hurt when he doesn't.
If your wife is taking a page from my book of passive-aggression, this could be dangerous. Have you explored the reasons ruck she's just not that into you? Seeking a wife or gf to fuck why have you only been talking for hours in the last few weeks — instead of the last 19 years?
I consulted a team of experts in the field, literally: Fifty Shades of Grey. They told me that one copy circulated around the team: After one wife was done with it, another guy would borrow it — before long, they were all bragging on the bench about how their wives had transformed from cold fish to "animals in the sack.
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Sure, I scoffed but by the sounds of it, you should put a copy on her side of the bed. I also told my team that I want to be the next in line. I should tell you that they all envy your situation: But to me, you don't sound lucky.
So I called a sexologist, a man who has a PhD in human sexuality — to ask if you are indeed "living the dream," as my team claims. Ever the skeptic, I plead with him that there's no way this can work with you going out on a sexcapade while your wife sits at home.
Stephen de Wit, who says he's coached Seeming couples Swingers Personals in Murphysboro successful "consensual non-monogamous" relationships. We agree you should investigate your mismatched libidos first — but "stepping outside the marriage," as the doctor puts it, can actually help. Once you've discussed all the details, all the emotions and the expectations — how much does she want to to know, how often is the sex allowed, where will it take place, how this new dynamic will play into your regular domestic spats, does she also want a "green light," Seeking a wife or gf to fuck.
When he comes home, they role play — she gets to ask the questions about his night. Should he have texted more?
How much does she want to know is paramount here. The doctor advises — though I can hear him cringing — that a good starting point would be websites targeted to connecting people in committed relationships who are searching for casual sex.
There, you should be painstakingly clear that you love your wife in your profile — and look cuck a woman with the same expectations, the doc says. I'm still wildly uncomfortable with this — go make sex better with your wife, I say — but Dr.
De Wit says indeed that I'm a prude. I groan through most of his sexologist speak — "we've been programmed to think of Sreking as 3-D — dirty, dangerous, and degrading" — but then he says something enlightening that I'll leave you to ponder. After, of course, you've really tried Ladies seeking real sex Lake Saint Louis make sex better Seeking a wife or gf to fuck your wife.
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